Here the most common mistakes men make with women during the early stages of dating and beyond. I am not going to pull any punches in this article. Anything less would be a disservice to you as this information could make a real difference in your relationships.
Spend a huge amount of money on the first date.
This is one of the most common mistakes. There’s a number of reasons why this is a bad idea. (1.) You don’t know if you’re ever going to see her again after the first date. You may find that you don’t like her or that there’s no chemistry once you’ve had an opportunity to get to know her. Or she may not like you. If any of these things is the outcome, and it frequently is on the first date, you’ve wasted a huge sum of money. (2.) You can find out a lot about a woman by deliberately spending a small amount of money on the first date. If she appears to enjoy your company regardless of where you go, then she’s a woman who doesn’t expect or demand to be taken to expensive places. If she does, I guarantee you that she will be that way in every area of your relationship. She’s a spender who expects you to spend a lot of money on her. (3.) Many women will see you as being a fool if you spend a large amount of money on the first date. And she’ll more likely respect you if you do the opposite.
Act like someone they are not.
This is the most common behavior of all, especially after a few drinks. Women put on their best act as well, but they don’t do it to the degree that men do. Without a doubt, your best act is being yourself. If you start a relationship playing role that’s not you, when does it end? It’s a lot of work being something you’re not. And it’s a waste of time. Do you want a woman to fall in love with a character you’re pretending to be or you? Your best performance will come by just being yourself.
Fail to determine if she has been tested for all STD’s before sex.
You only get one chance at this. If you make a mistake, you could get a STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) that could shorten your life or drastically alter it forever! Here’s what radically changed my attitude about this issue. Just to be sure, I’ve been tested for STD’s several times throughout my life. And I’m enormously grateful that I came out 100% clean each time. While I was waiting to be tested, I read a pamphlet that said something like this: “When you have sex with someone, you are having sex with everyone they have had sex with and everyone their partners have had sex with for the past several years! In addition, I read that although using a prophylactic (rubber) is good protection against many STD’s and pregnancy, it’s not 100% effective. And with some STD’s, like herpes I believe, they provide little protection. This information permanently changed my approach. I hope it does the same for you.
Respond to her drama and games.
It’s a shame that so many women succumb to this type of conduct. I’ve learned a lot about this unfortunate behavior by watching a few minutes of those ridiculous reality shows involving groups of unprofessional women like “The Housewives of Beverly Hills.” and other “housewife” “reality” shows. A clear indication of how damaging it can be is the fact that one of their husbands committed suicide because of nasty comments made by his wife on the show.